No-one Knows What To Expect When You're Dying - But Hospices Helped Me

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India PollockWales societal affairs correspondent

BBC Paul Thomas is sat successful a hospice chair pinch a cushion down his shoulders. He has a grey beard and moustache and wears a bluish polo shirt. He has a ample achromatic bandage covering nan apical of his head. He is looking somewhat disconnected camera pinch his rima somewhat open.BBC

Paul Thomas says he appreciates being empowered to make decisions

Paul Thomas was struggling unsocial astatine location earlier moving into St Kentigern Hospice successful St Asaph to person end-of-life care, saying his symptom and his worries were amended managed there.

"I deliberation everybody worries erstwhile they travel to nan past stages, nary 1 knows what to expect, but these group are awesome astatine relaxing you and they thief you an atrocious lot."

But hospice services caring for group astatine nan extremity of their lives are astatine consequence because nan existent backing exemplary is unsustainable, said Hospice UK.

The Welsh authorities said finance had accrued substantially complete this Senedd word and activity was continuing connected a caller commissioning approach.

Nine of nan 14 hospices successful Wales said they look a financial shortage successful 2025-26, while 1 has closed and different is temporarily unopen because of accrued moving costs and backing difficulties.

Paul, 58, from Flint, said his life had "become a batch little painful" and a batch of his worries had been "taken away" by unit caring for him.

"They put maine successful a bed, packed my lawsuit distant and asked what I wanted to eat.

"They did a really bully chickenhearted curry and Eton messiness and I slept for astir 16 hours. I was shattered," he said.

"It brings maine a batch much comfort, a batch much serenity and they talk things pinch you successful a much sedate and gentle way."

A group of his friends visited him together - thing he said would not person happened successful hospital.

"It was rather quiet and peaceful. A spot of laughter, but not excessively overmuch because it's not nan clip to laughter now is it?"

He added that unit "went retired of their way" to make him consciousness better.

"I consciousness comfortable and safe, and astatine this play it's very important."

Some 20,000 adults and children affected by terminal unwellness person support from hospices each twelvemonth and Welsh hospices person 95 inpatient beds, though immoderate mightiness not beryllium successful usage because of backing and staffing.

About 60% of hospice services are delivered successful nan community.

The kindness that represents hospices successful Wales has called connected Welsh authorities and wellness leaders to urgently protect services by updating nan existent backing model.

Hospice UK said big hospice inpatient and organization services were apt to trim unless things changed.

John Owen John and Rowena Owen beryllium successful a ample infirmary type bed. Rowena has a conduit going into her nose, held successful spot by micropore tape. She is wearing a apical pinch cats connected while John wears a garment pinch cats on. The are some smiling. Rowena is looking into camera but John is looking somewhat disconnected camera.John Owen

John Owen's woman Rowena spent 2 weeks successful St Kentigern earlier passing distant connected 1 January 2026

Rowena Owen was diagnosed pinch a uncommon shape of crab successful 2024.

Her husband, John Owen, described her arsenic an astonishing personification saying: "She loved life and was specified a kind, caring and compassionate person."

He added: "We wanted nan hospice to attraction for her, and past we could conscionable attraction for her loving needs and that's precisely what happened."

John said nan hospice tried to make everything they wanted hap successful Rowena's past days.

"We brought [our] 2 cats successful and she was capable to springiness them a stroke, which was amazing."

They besides managed to get a cuddle furniture installed.

"It was specified a comfortableness to some of america because it meant I could enactment pinch Rowena 24/7 - which I did for 12 days.

"It was incredibly sad and difficult activity but they made it arsenic champion arsenic it perchance could beryllium for us," he said.

John was now fundraising for different cuddle furniture for nan hospice truthful others could use from it.

He agreed that attraction successful hospices was calmer than attraction successful hospitals.

"The truth that they're not funded capable is really sad because they are vital," he said.

John Owen Rowena is sitting successful a hospice furniture - it looks akin to a infirmary bed, pinch a conduit attached to her nose, pinch micropore portion holding it successful place. She is wearing a achromatic and achromatic apical and is nether nan sheets. She is stroking her cat, who has been brought into nan hospice. The feline is mostly achromatic pinch patches of white. Rowena, who has mid magnitude grey hairsbreadth combed backmost and wears glasses, is looking into camera pinch a flimsy grin connected her face. John Owen

Orthodontist Rowena Owen spent her past days successful St Kentigern Hospice successful St Asaph

In nan past year, Shalom House Hospice successful Pembrokeshire has closed and a four-bed inpatient portion astatine St David's Hospice successful Holyhead is temporarily closed owed to accrued moving costs and backing difficulties.

Liz Booyse, chair of Hospices Cymru, said connected mean 30% of hospice backing was from Welsh authorities and nan NHS, while nan remaining 70% was from charitable donations.

"Hospices will beryllium making decisions correct now arsenic to nan early of nan services they tin offer... they're making difficult decisions.

"We tin besides spot that astir 25% much group will request palliative and end-of-life attraction complete nan adjacent 25 years."

A female stood successful a corridor successful a hospice. The inheritance is blurred and she is successful focus. She has shoulder-length blonde/brown hairsbreadth and smiles astatine nan camera. She has pinkish lipstick connected and wears a beige overgarment complete a achromatic t-shirt. It is simply a caput and shoulders shot.

Chair of Hospices Cymru, Liz Booyse, says hospices "really request to cognize what nan early looks for illustration successful financial terms"

The Welsh authorities said it recognised nan important publication hospices make to end-of-life attraction and was moving pinch them to amended understand their challenges.

A spokesperson said: "Investment successful hospices has accrued substantially complete this Senedd term, including an further £5.2m annually and much than £9.5m successful one-off grants, helping nan assemblage to meet rising costs and support captious services.

"Work connected a caller hospice commissioning attack is ongoing to guarantee adjacent access, semipermanent sustainability, and high-quality attraction crossed Wales."

Plaid Cymru said it would see really it could make nan assemblage much financially sustainable and would undertake broad governance reforms crossed nan NHS to amended end-of-life care.

The Liberal Democrats called connected nan UK and Welsh governments to reverse nan National Insurance summation successful hospices, present a sustainable backing settlement, guarantee salary parity for hospice unit pinch NHS unit and put agelong word contracts successful spot crossed Wales.

The Welsh Conservatives said it would create a caller sustainable backing exemplary and supply an other £40m complete nan adjacent Senedd term, adding that important taxation rises had forced nan assemblage to make difficult decisions.

Reform UK and nan Welsh Green Party person been asked to respond.

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