Branwen JeffreysEducation Editor and Erica Witherington

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When lockdown started, assemblage student Sam was surviving pinch his mum because his parents were separated.
Then his dada died unexpectedly, leaving him emotion that "something had been stolen" from him.
His acquisition is 1 of galore being highlighted arsenic nan Covid-19 nationalist inquiry prepares to look astatine nan pandemic's effect connected children and young people.
A caller study - seen exclusively by nan BBC - includes individual accounts of 600 group who were nether 18 during nan pandemic.
They see happy memories of clip spent pinch family, arsenic good arsenic nan effect of disruption to schools being moved online, societal isolation and nan nonaccomplishment of relatives.
The enquiry will commencement proceeding grounds connected these issues from Monday 29 September.
'I mislaid a relationship'


Sam's dada died abruptly during nan pandemic, erstwhile he was 12
Wigan resident Sam was 12 during nan first lockdowns and says he recovered it difficult to understand nan rules that prevented him spending much clip pinch his dad.
His dad's decease near him struggling pinch regrets that he had "lost a relationship" because of nan isolation earlier his father's death.
"I do consciousness heavy down that thing has been stolen from me," he says.
"But I do cognize that nan procedures that we had to spell done were right. It was a bad situation."
Now 17, Sam's resilience has sadly been tested further aft nan nonaccomplishment of his mum, who precocious died from cancer.
But Sam says that spot he built up during Covid has helped springiness him "the devices to woody pinch condolences alone".
'Trying to drawback up connected nan mislaid moments'
Kate Eisenstein, who is portion of nan squad starring nan inquiry, says nan pandemic was a "life-changing group of circumstances" for nan children and teenagers who lived done it.
The effect of nan pandemic group retired successful nan grounds is hugely varied and includes happier memories from those who flourished successful unafraid homes, enjoying online learning.
Other accounts seizure nan fears of children successful vulnerable families pinch nary flight from intelligence wellness issues aliases home violence.
Some picture nan devastating abrupt nonaccomplishment of parents aliases grandparents, followed by online aliases physically distanced funerals.
Grief for family members mislaid during nan pandemic is an acquisition shared pinch immoderate of Sam's assemblage classmates.
Student Ella told nan BBC that losing her granddad during Covid had made her worth spending much clip pinch her grandma.
It is 1 of nan ways successful which Ella says she is trying to "catch up connected nan mislaid moments" she missed during Covid.
Living life online
One almost cosmopolitan acquisition for children surviving done nan pandemic was overmuch of life shifting to online platforms.
While this allowed family connections and friendships to beryllium maintained, Ms Eisenstein said immoderate children had darker experiences, spending up to 19 hours a time online, leaving them "really anxious".
"Some told america really they started comparing their assemblage image to group online, really video games and societal media distracted from their learning," she said.
Most worrying, she said, were nan accounts revealing an accrued consequence of adults seeking to utilization young children online, including sending nude images and inappropriate messages.
The singular assortment of experiences, some affirmative and stressful, adds up to what she describes arsenic "an unprecedented penetration into children's soul world".
Aaliyah, a student astatine Winstanley College adjacent Wigan, says nan societal isolation she knowledgeable aged 11 led to her spending hours looking astatine societal media, which began altering her self-confidence.
"With nan contented I was seeing online, I'd commencement to look successful nan reflector and go, 'I could alteration that astir myself,' aliases 'I don't really for illustration that astir myself,'" she says.
Lasting effects


Avalyn was location schooled done her GCSEs aft contracting agelong Covid
The enquiry is besides expected to perceive astir nan experiences of children still surviving pinch agelong Covid, for illustration Avalyn, now 16, who became sick pinch nan microorganism successful October 2021.
While schools were opening to return to normal, Avalyn was struggling pinch a heavy and debilitating fatigue, and yet near schoolhouse for location education.
It took a twelvemonth to get a general test of agelong Covid and master advice.
"I enjoyed being successful school, I enjoyed being societal and seeing people, and past abruptly that was taken distant from maine very quickly," Avalyn says.
Before agelong Covid, Avalyn says she was sporty astatine superior schoolhouse and enjoyed acrobatics.
Like tons of different children her age, Avalyn has shown determination and resilience to execute nan things that mightiness not person been truthful difficult successful different circumstances, and she has now passed 4 GCSEs.
"I knew I wanted to do GCSEs to beryllium to myself particularly that I still had nan expertise to do what everyone other was doing," she says.
She still goes to a performing arts group, which allows her to subordinate successful arsenic overmuch aliases arsenic small arsenic she tin manage.
Avalyn admits "it's weird to say", but successful immoderate ways she is "grateful" to person had agelong Covid, because of nan things she has achieved during her agelong spells astatine home.
She has written, illustrated and self-published 2 children's books and spent much clip connected her art.
While nan way up is not straightforward, she says she is optimistic of uncovering a measurement to study and get into work.
The enquiry plans to perceive grounds connected nan effect of children and young group crossed 4 weeks from 29 September to 23 October.
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